What Are the Reasons for Divorce and How to Save a Marriage in a Joint Family ?

As the divorce rate has become very common in today's era, small things can lead to divorce between husband and wife, or the wife does not want to live with her husband, or the husband does not want to live with his wife. Although they get married with great enthusiasm, they wait their whole lives for when they will get married. 

What happens after getting married that small things like getting divorced or they reach such a situation that they do not care about each other at all?

Family system like Pakistan, Bangladesh or India. In these countries, family system is given a lot of priority. So if you have to live with family, husband and wife together in one house, as is the case in our traditional culture in these countries, the problem is that it becomes a little difficult to adjust there, especially for women because it becomes difficult to understand a new family or to adjust a little with their rules and regulations. If women compromise a little on one thing, then she can live a good life. Yes, we cannot make anyone compromise, but because children and parents are in a system where we have to live with them, 

we do not get facilities like in Europe, America or any big country. As in foreign countries, there is no family system. Even if parents leave their children, they get support from the government and they can live a good life. They can also hire a servant. But in our countries, this does not happen. In such a situation, children, especially sons, have to live with their parents. Due to which their wives also have to go to keep them with them again and where even a small inconsistency can create problems, during this time if this thing is looked at a little, life can be lived well and after a little compromise or adjustment, a good life can be lived and such problems never arise. 

if a woman understands that her own home, which is her parents' home, and her husband's home, which is now her home, she starts living by considering them like her siblings or her parents like her parents, then problems never arise. A man is only happy if his wife respects his parents or his siblings, who he has raised, just as he respects his siblings or parents

Men should respect their wives, respect them because they are your life partner and they will have to spend the rest of their lives with you. You will have to have children from them, so it is very important to respect their wives. They should respect their parents as well as their wives. They should maintain a good balance between their parents and their families so that the wife and parents all have their own share of the work of respect.

No one should be given such an opportunity to disrespect your wife. In any case, parents or siblings should not take such opportunities to disrespect your wife or your wife should disrespect them. It does not happen that anyone starts disrespecting your wife or starts fighting with her. 

This happens only when the family members talk about something or the other. Because the wife has to be just there and the family members are a little involved in it, so they have to tolerate it. So both sides should take this thing and walk away clean. Only then can a family system be formed for everyone. Only then can a relationship of love and peace be formed. To create this, it is most important that everyone sits with each other and discusses their worries or problems together, which never creates problems.