There are currently approximately 10 million women in Pakistan who are over the age of 35 and are waiting for marriage. Pakistan is an Islamic country and polygamy is also permitted here. In Pakistan, a man can marry four times, while a woman can only marry once, that is, at a time. However, despite this, there are currently an estimated 10 million women in Pakistan who are over the age of 35 and are waiting for marriage.

Not getting married despite permission for multiple marriages

Despite the permission of four marriages, it is very difficult to get married in Pakistan. Of course, due to not being able to have children, some people get married again, but that is not so easy. There are many fights and many problems in the family, and thus it is difficult to get married again.

Despite Pakistan being an Islamic country, it has become difficult to get married here despite so many difficulties. Those boys who have reached the age of marriage, due to lack of business or lack of a good job, are not able to get married and reach the age of 30, at which age it becomes difficult to get married.

Women's conditions for marriage

While the problem on the girls' side is that the girls themselves are looking for the best possible match, whether the boy is settled in Pakistan or lives in a foreign country and settles there or has a good business or government job in Pakistan, which is the situation in Pakistan. In these circumstances, it is very difficult to find such match and for this reason, the number of women who are over 35 years old is increasing day by day and due to not getting married at this age, it becomes more difficult for them to get married.  
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What should parents do about marriages?

Parents should get their children married as soon as possible. They should not wait for their children to get a good position or get a good job or take part in a good business after getting good education. Rather, they should get married as soon as possible when they reach the age of marriage.

This will save them from many problems and their lives will also become easier. As the situation in Pakistan is going on, and women have also outnumbered, in this situation, the nation should be able to do this by getting their children married as soon as possible.

Caste community issues

Apart from this, the main reason for most marriages not happening is that people do not marry people of a lower caste than themselves, or people of a higher caste do not marry people of a lower caste, or people of a lower caste do not marry people of a higher caste, and those who spend their time looking for people of their own caste and it is difficult for them to find match in this caste or sometimes it is rare because people consider it appropriate to marry within their own caste, especially girls, they like to marry people of their own community. 

This should not be done. In all Muslim countries that wherever someone seeks a good match, people are taken lightly and do not follow the idea that a match should be made within a particular community. We should also follow them. As Muslims, we should also agree to marry someone wherever there is a suitable match and the boy or girls is suitable.